Church Etiquette...

My husband and I started going to church again around two years ago after a life changing event (but this is not what I am writing about here) and we've come to conclude that the Philippines, despite being the only Catholic nation in the ASEAN region, has lost (or probably didn't ever have) its church etiquette.

We try as much as possible to really focus on the mass and to be "holy" (at least during the mass) by no thinking negative thoughts, but there are several things that really just distract us and we can't keep ourselves from rolling our eyes or nudging each others elbows, or, worst case scenario, literally talk about it while at church.

Here goes the list:
1. Kids running around during mass. (rolls eyes) It is good parenting to take your kids to church and to teach them the importance of hearing mass, but please make sure you let your kids know the importance of staying put at church. RESPECT for places of worship and for solemn events is the key here.

2. Adults chatting with each other during mass. Oh really? Why did you even go to mass? Need I say more?

3. Couples showing too much PDA while in Church. Get a room!

4. People falling asleep in mass. Oh well, this is debateable and I am guilty of this sometimes too, especially if I don't understand, or worse, hear the priest during homily. However... There are times when, even when the priest of the day has such a loud voice, some individuals still fall asleep. I believe that if you are intently listening, you won't ever fall asleep.

5. People not singing or participating in mass. There's a reason why there are things called: responsorial psalms, prayers of the faithful, hymn of praise, the Lord's prayer, etc. There's a reason why it's called a church - because people gather to worship and praise. So, what are you doing there just standing/sitting down? Killing time?

6. People who don't put their phones on silent mode.

There seems to be more, but for now I'll put my top 6 pet peeves while at church.

Why is church etiquette so rare? Does it exist in the Philippines? Does it even have to be taught or blogged about?!